About Ily Tsare
I’m Ily Tsare, an accredited EMDR/CBT therapist. I work with clients across three interconnected areas: emotional and internal states, relationships and social skills, and work/study/career challenges.
Accredited Member – American Association of EMDR Therapists (EMDRIA)
Affiliated Memeber – European Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Therapies (EABCT)
I have over 10 years of professional experience working with individuals and teams in the UK, USA, Singapore, Europe, the UAE. My background combines several perspectives:
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Therapist: providing EMDR/CBT counselling and therapy.
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Organizational Psychologist: consulting on leadership, stress, and resilience.
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Team Lead: managing high-performance teams in international settings.
This experience allows me to understand both the deep personal challenges people face and the real-world pressures of professional life. Many of my clients are navigating demanding roles, cross-cultural environments, or transitions where emotional wellbeing and performance intersect.
My approach is grounded in evidence-based methods, compassion, and clarity. In therapy, I help you:
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Process unresolved trauma and painful experiences.
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Regain balance in emotions, sleep, and relationships.
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Rebuild self-confidence and resilience for the future.
I work with adults facing trauma, anxiety, burnout, depression, relationship difficulties, and complex internal struggles. Whether you’re dealing with the aftermath of trauma or the stress of high expectations, therapy with me is about creating space to heal and move forward.

Areas of Expertise
1. Emotional and Internal States
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Trauma & PTSD – classical trauma, crisis situations, complex and developmental trauma.
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Anxiety & stress – generalized anxiety, panic attacks, social anxiety.
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Burnout & apathy – loss of energy, emotional exhaustion, demotivation.
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Depression & low mood – hopelessness, insomnia, loss of interest, lack of vitality.
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Emotional regulation difficulties – impulsivity, irritability, anger, grief, loss of control.
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Sleep problems – nightmares, difficulty falling asleep, restless nights.
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Shame & guilt – moral injury, toxic self-blame, self-criticism.
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Dissociation & disconnection – feeling unreal, cut off, emotionally numb.
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Grief & loss – bereavement, relationship endings, major life transitions.
2. Relationships and Social Skills
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Conflict at work or home – with colleagues, managers, subordinates, partners.
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Attachment wounds – betrayal trauma, fear of abandonment, trust issues.
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Relationship anxiety – fear of rejection, difficulty forming intimacy.
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Communication difficulties – boundaries, assertiveness, social confidence.
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Recurrent unhealthy patterns – repeating cycles in partnerships or friendships.
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Loneliness & isolation – difficulty connecting or feeling understood.
3. Work, Studies, and Career
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Workplace stress & crises – corporate burnout, leadership stress, team pressure.
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Performance anxiety – fear of failure, impostor syndrome, stage fright.
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Professional setbacks – job loss, failed projects, business crises.
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Adaptation & career change – emigration, switching roles, industries, or positions.
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Leadership & management – improving effectiveness in leading people and processes.
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Student & academic stress – exams, study pressure, adjusting to new environments.
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Entrepreneurial challenges – balancing risk, uncertainty, and personal wellbeing.
Emotional Wellbeing
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Feel calmer and more balanced in daily life
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Reduce anxiety, depression, and mood swings
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Improve sleep and restore natural energy
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Gain tools for managing stress and strong emotions
Healing from the Past
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Process and release the impact of trauma and PTSD
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Free yourself from flashbacks, nightmares, and intrusive memories
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Overcome blocks that prevent you from moving forward with new challenges (career changes, relationships, projects)
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Build resilience to face future stress with confidence
Relationships & Social Confidence
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Improve communication and emotional stability
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Reduce social anxiety and fear of rejection
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Break free from repeating unhealthy relationship patterns
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Build trust, intimacy, and more fulfilling connections
Work, Studies & Career
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Overcome burnout and regain motivation
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Build confidence, focus, and clarity under pressure
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Address impostor syndrome, perfectionism, and fear of failure
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Improve leadership skills, teamwork, and workplace relationships
Бесплатная сессия-знакомство (15-30 мин)
Book a free 15-minute intro session
Why EMDR?
80%
clients report high effectiveness even after seral sessions
+300%
Faster than other types of therapy
35+
countries officially recognize EMDR
30+
years of research
Effectiveness of EMDR
As Seen In
Trusted by Leading Health Organizations
American Psychiatric Association (APA)
World Health Organization (WHO)
UK National Health Service (NHS)
Recognizes EMDR as an effective treatment for trauma and stress-related conditions.
Recommends EMDR for the treatment of PTSD and trauma-related disorders in both adults and children.
Lists EMDR as an evidence-based therapy for PTSD and trauma.
How EMDR Therapy Works
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Preparation & Stabilization
We create safety and stability. You’ll learn grounding and self-regulation techniques to use anytime.
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Processing
Through bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping, or sounds), we reprocess memories and reduce their emotional intensity.
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Поддержка и интеграция
Анализируем изменения, отслеживаем результаты и интегрируем их в повседневную жизнь.
Testimonials
All reviews are genuine, shared with client consent, and published fully anonymously.
"I came with a constant need for approval, fear of criticism, and deep self-doubt — especially in public situations. After just one EMDR session, my dependence on approval decreased noticeably."
"We quickly identified the core issues and explored different solutions. I understood how each problem could be worked through, and the whole process felt very supportive and comfortable."
"I was struggling with apathy and a difficult life decision. We used several EMDR techniques, and the right solution became obvious to me. I also received a clear therapy plan with concrete steps to improve my state."
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